Are you serious about living in the Kingdom of God? if so you will have to get serious about the Word. If you want to live with Jesus then you will have to attend the Word. If you really want Jesus in your life you will pay attention to Him (the Word is Him). You won't go hours without talking to Him, or even more than 15 minutes. If you depend on Him and you are in love with Him you will want to be with Him all the time.
How do you fall so in love with Him so that you want Him all the time? Just like you fall in love with anything else or anybody else. For instance if you feed your body food (or anything else), your body will want more. But if you starve your body of food (or anything else) it won't want it anymore. But you will die if you don't eat.
If you starve yourself of Jesus you won't want Jesus, and you will not have eternal life, you will die. But if you give yourself Jesus you will want Him. You won't be able to get enough of Him and he will give you life to the full until it overflows, now and forever!
Proverbs 4:20 My son, attend to my words; consent and submit to my sayings. 21 Let them not depart from your sight; keep them in the center of your heart. 22 For they are life to those who find them, healing and health to all their flesh. 23 Keep and guard your heart with all vigilance and above all that you guard, for out of it flow the springs of life. AMPC