You know we most often talk about putting ourselves aside and loving others first, but today God wants to talk to us about loving ourselves.
Some of us are so beat up, torn down and afflicted with emotional pain that they can hardly function let alone love others. I have seen this in countless victims of the enemy—myself included.
Acts 10:38 How God anointed and consecrated Jesus of Nazareth with the [Holy] Spirit and with strength and ability and power; how He went about doing good and, in particular, curing all who were harassed and oppressed by [the power of] the devil, for God was with Him. AMPC
If you are putting yourself down in any way, you are being harassed by the enemy and it is time to put an end to it. How? Receive your healing.
Jesus went about doing good and in particular curing all who were harassed and oppressed by the power of the devil. Do you know how he cured all who were harassed by the devil? Did you think He laid hands on them? Do you think He commanded the devil to come out of them?
Personally I don't think that He did. I think He taught them who they were in Him (in Christ) and I believe from there He taught them —just like He did His disciples. He taught them the enemies power, his ploys and how to take authority over the enemy.
Paul taught us what he learned from Jesus. He said our warfare is not with people. But our warfare is with the enemy—in our mind.
2 Corinthians 10:3 For though we walk (live) in the flesh, we are not carrying on our warfare according to the flesh and using mere human weapons. 4 For the weapons of our warfare are not physical [weapons of flesh and blood], but they are mighty before God for the overthrow and destruction of strongholds, 5 [Inasmuch as we] refute arguments and theories and reasonings and every proud and lofty thing that sets itself up against the [true] knowledge of God; and we lead every thought and purpose away captive into the obedience of Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One), 6 Being in readiness to punish every [insubordinate for his] disobedience, when your own submission and obedience [as a church] are fully secured and complete. AMPC
What can we learn from what Paul said? We are being harassed by the enemy. —And the cure, is to think Jesus thoughts not the enemies thoughts —resist the thoughts from the enemy and he will flee ( James 4:7).
Peter warned us —He said be alert, the enemy is prowling about looking for someone he can devour.
1 Peter 5:8 Casting the whole of your care [all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, once and for all] on Him, for He cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully. 8 Be well balanced (temperate, sober of mind), be vigilant and cautious at all times; for that enemy of yours, the devil, roams around like a lion roaring [in fierce hunger], seeking someone to seize upon and devour. 9 Withstand him; be firm in faith [against his onset—rooted, established, strong, immovable, and determined], knowing that the same identical) sufferings are appointed to your brotherhood (the whole body of Christians) throughout the world. AMPC
If you are putting yourself down, then you are being controlled by the power of the enemy. Which means you are listening to his thoughts, you are letting him talk to you and convince you of his thoughts.
Well, you might say I don't believe there is a devil, let alone that it is him talking to me. If that is you then I would like to challenge you to ask yourself a question.
Would you talk to yourself that way? Would you tell yourself you hate yourself, or you want to kill yourself? Would you say those things to your children? No you wouldn't, of course you wouldn't. But what is happening is you are hearing the enemies thoughts in your head. They might be old tapes of things said to you, or even some fresh put me downs, but what you are hearing is indeed the enemy.
He may be using what someone said to you, someone who had abused you in the past to keep that tape playing— to keep that picture in your mind.
You need to know that those voices originate from the enemy. And you should know your parents or whoever they were —that said those things to you that hurt you and put you down were not intended for you by that person. As Paul said it is not the person you are in warfare with—but the enemy.
Some people talk about generational curses and that is why bad things happen in their family. Actually it is just the fact that as God said we are destroyed for a lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6). Your family didn't know the instruction from the Word or they would have resisted the enemy. They would have taken captive their thoughts. If your parents abused you, they had a lack of relationship with Jesus and with that a lack of knowledge. If one doesn't read the Book He allows the enemy to overtake, harass, and oppress through them.
But now that you know, you can stop the enemy by taking the time to listen to Jesus. Instead of letting your mind run wild, instead of letting it think what it wants, think on these things…..
Philippians 4:8 For the rest, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them]. AMPC
If you let Jesus control your thinking —then you can be loved by Him, you can know Him and that He loves you. As you experience His love you can love you, and then go ahead and see how well you can love others.
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